Work fills most of our lives. This is the truth. Willingly or not, live in small conflicts, and (unfortunately) rumors that arise at work. Of course, you strive to remain neutral (Bart-poodle nearly mastered it to perfection), but it's difficult. I am in severe situations, I direct the words Slonimski - when you do not know how to behave, just keep up decently. It is not always good on the go ...
probably in any environment there are people who gain from minimum effort maximum effects. Theoretically there is nothing wrong with that, but I have the impression that it reaches to the detriment of others. A simple example - a person from my company enjoys a great opinion of the heads. They have it must be very agile and clever. What is the truth they know only those who work closest with her. Please do not think that the grievances or complain. Just a way of being perceived as a growing area. It looks something like this - one goes very busy, offering visions of myself ślęczącego the work at night, is very anxious mien if they carried the whole burden of this world, on the other side can afford to set compliments of the above (those below do not pay attention.) Most of the hard work shifted to the other, but doing it in such a specific way that can not be explicitly formulate objections. Laura, of course, it collects and not the people who really work at it.
For justice I must add that not everyone can treat people instrumentally. Emotional approach interferes with his career. It's hard to look at the man and not see his problems and ambitions ...! Those who have mastered it to perfection are able to treat people instrumentally and unscrupulous assign themselves their own merit. Of course, in the long run that is not possible (at least I think so.) Someone sooner or later to rebel, but the mere fact that something like this occurs, it is curious.
Well, the question arises - contain or not contain a friendship at work? As if it was not given to then be able to identify their weakest points ... On the other hand all the time hard to wear "mask" and the control. What you build relationships at work? Are you afraid that you will be abused? Yours
Globus
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